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Keeping the Love Alive While Wedding Planning

Stressful situations can put a strain on any couple, and few things are as fraught with frustration as wedding planning.

Even the most calm and collected couples will find themselves tearing their hair out when a vendor backs out, the invitations arrive with errors, and the guest list begins to stretch far beyond what you originally intended.

Through all the craziness, you might be tempted to turn on each other. Don’t! You can get through the planning phase and come out stronger on the other side if you keep these things in mind:

Tip #1: Don’t stop going on dates.

Man giving woman a piggyback

This is good advice for after you’re married as well. Never stop dating your significant other. Take the time to reconnect over a nice dinner, have fun together at a park, or relax out in nature on a hike. Whatever you like doing together, don’t stop doing it just because you’re busy with the wedding plans. Forget about the wedding, forget about your to do list, and just enjoy one another!

Tip #2: Pick your battles.

Married couple's hands wearing wedding rings

Rings: The Belle, The Aloha

Not every wedding planning decision will lead to an argument, but for the ones that do, think about whether or not it’s actually important enough to fight about. Choosing a date that works for both of your families? Probably important. What font your invitations should be in? Not worth it. Marriage will involve compromise, so it’s a good idea to start practicing early on.

Tip #3: Continue communicating!

Couple laying down in bed

Don’t let wedding planning take up so much of your time that you only talk business. Sure, you’ll want to keep each other updated when you check something off the list or run into an issue that needs to be solved. But if you only talk about wedding plans 24/7, you’ll feel more like business partners than a couple. Set the plans aside for a minute and check in with one another.

Tip #4: Keep the big picture in mind.

Married couple's hands in front of a floral bouquet

Rings: The Titan, The Desire band, The One and Only

Don’t let the wedding become more important than the marriage. It’s a big step, and they don’t call it the “big day” for nothing, but when it’s all over you’ll have a lifetime of marriage that will require more attention and care than a wedding. When you’re tempted to start bickering or rehash an old fight about insignificant details, take a step back and remember why you’re getting married in the first place. A wedding is one day; marriage is the rest of your life.

Bonus tip: consider inexpensive wedding bands!

Married couple's hands wearing wedding bands

Rings: The Titan, The Infinity

Did you know that more and more couples are ditching old traditions and going for inexpensive engagement rings & wedding bands instead? As generations grow, it becomes apparent that expensive rings do nothing for marriages – instead, they plant seeds of stress due to the insane price point. Who wants to start off their marriage fighting over finances?

Companies like Modern Gents are changing the wedding game! They offer beautiful rings that look & shine like a real diamond, but are only a fraction of the cost. You're going to want to see this for yourself – check out the full collection here!

Keeping the love alive while wedding planning is really all about priorities.

Man giving woman a piggyback ride

There’s a lot to do, details to iron out, and many moments of frustration that will pop up when things don’t go according to plan. But you have a partner now! You’re a team, and you’re in this together. When you face wedding planning as a challenge for both of you to face instead of an obstacle that comes between you, you’ll have no trouble working together and keeping the love alive.