Do you have a wedding ring set, and you’re wondering how exactly to wear it? While there isn’t an objectively correct way to wear a wedding ring set, there are a few popular choices. Most people tend to choose one of three options when wearing their wedding ring sets.
What Is a Wedding Ring Set?
First, what exactly is this bridal set we speak of? Well, wedding ring sets, also known as bridal sets, aren’t just two rings put together. Well, technically, they are, but it’s a little more artful than that. It’s an engagement ring and a wedding ring that are made to complement each other and fit together perfectly. While you can buy each of those individually, a bridal set offers a more cohesive look and feel.
The beauty of a wedding ring set is its intentional design harmony. Designers craft each piece with specific proportions and weights to create visual balance when worn together and ensure both pieces fit together flawlessly. The engagement ring usually features a prominent center stone, and the wedding band is designed to complement — rather than compete with — this focal point. The curves and angles of each ring accommodate the other, preventing the awkward positioning or uncomfortable gaps that may occur with mismatched pieces that were not designed to fit together.
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Stacked
This is probably the most popular way, though far from the only way. Many brides choose to wear both pieces of their wedding ring set on the same hand (usually the left ring finger) to complete the look at all times.
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The only choice here is whether you want to wear your wedding band on top of your engagement ring or below it. The more common choice when wearing both is to put your wedding ring on first and then the engagement ring after. That’s generally a more popular look. Of course, you can also wear them in the order you received them, which would mean putting your wedding ring on top of your engagement ring. Really, this is all just personal preference. The best way to arrange your rings often depends on their design characteristics. Consider how your rings move and interact during daily activities. The one that feels most natural and secure when moving your hand is typically the most practical long-term choice.
There was a time when it was popular to get your wedding and engagement bands soldered together into one larger ring. While not as popular now, it’s still an option you have and would definitely make your rings stacked.
The Traditional Order: Wedding Band First
Putting your wedding band on first carries deep symbolism rooted in centuries of marriage customs. In this arrangement, the wedding band sits closest to your heart. Your engagement ring guards it, symbolically sealing your sacred bond. This traditional placement arose from the Ancient Egyptian belief that a so-called “vein of love” ran directly from the ring finger to the heart. While that has been disproven, many couples still follow the tradition.
Alternative Styles: Engagement Ring First
Modern couples increasingly choose alternative placements that reflect their personal preferences. Some find wearing the engagement ring first more aesthetically pleasing, especially when the engagement ring has a lower profile and allows the wedding band to neatly nestle against it. Contemporary approaches prioritize comfort and daily wearability over traditional symbolism.
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While not as popular as stacked wedding rings, this is another perfectly good option. This is likely going to depend on your lifestyle, though. Some people like having both rings on one hand, so their other hand is completely free to type, write or do other slightly more dexterous tasks. If that doesn’t bother you or your rings are more minimal, one on each hand is a really cool, balanced look.
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Just One at a Time
This is arguably the most common option and definitely the simplest. This is especially true if you have a larger engagement ring and simpler wedding band. Many women wear them together for nicer events and formal gatherings, but otherwise, just wear their wedding band. If you like an active lifestyle or need to do dexterous, manual tasks often, this will probably be the best choice.
While these three are the most popular choices, there’s really no right or wrong way to wear a wedding ring set. Put them on two different fingers of the same hand if you like. Whatever is comfortable for you is all that matters here, so get as creative as you like.
Cultural Considerations
Cultural variations in ring wearing practices offer fascinating insights into diverse traditions and beliefs. In many European cultures, including Norway, Germany and Russia, couples wear their wedding bands on the right hand instead of the left. This tradition traces back to Roman traditions in which the right hand symbolized trust and honor.
Orthodox Christian communities also have strict protocols for engagement and wedding ring placement. Before marriage, the engagement ring is worn on the right hand. It moves to the left during the wedding ceremony.
These are just a few of the many customs surrounding where to wear wedding ring sets. If you’re unsure how to wear yours, learning about cultural traditions could provide an answer.
Coordinating Your Rings
Unless you buy a matching set, you’ll need to be careful when choosing wedding and engagement rings. One of the most important tips for matching your rings is to pay close attention to design elements to ensure metal harmony. Make sure both pieces complement each other and fit together nicely. Try them on to ensure a comfortable fit, too.
Conclusion
Whether you want to buy a matching set or mix and match to create your own, Modern Gents has you covered! Shop our complete collection of engagement rings and wedding bands today to find your perfect pair. As for how to wear it, that’s entirely up to you!
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